When I was growing up my sisters, cousins and I spent lots of time with our maternal grandparents.
They were the only grandparents we ever really knew.
What wonderful memories.
While my great-grandmother was living with my grandmother
There were four generations of women
Doing what women and girls did in the 50’s.
Standing over the floor furnace flannel night gowns filled with warm air.
Six of us sitting on the living room floor playing solitaire on everyone’s aces.
But perhaps my favorite memories are of Grandma’s wash house.
Whenever we would gather at her house in the summer
Grandma would turn her wash house into our play house.
There were trunks of old clothes.
A window converted in our minds into a drive up window where we happily served our “customers”.
And, of course, our “swimming pool”.
Grandpa would pull a cattle tank up to the house and fill it with water for our summer swims.
It was our place.
We were indulged.
We were loved.
I’ve carried those days in my head and heart for decades.
I dreamed of a garden version of the wash house.
So…one winter a few years back when it was too cold for golf
John needed a project.
What’s next he asked?
Master Bath or Garden House?
Being my boring practical self
Master Bath I answered.
Thankfully, John’s more fun.
So we spent the winter designing the garden house.
We had been talking about it since we moved here
Collecting pictures of structures we liked.
But…none were exactly what we wanted.
In time it simply came from John’s imagination.
He wanted it to fit into our backyard.
To look like it had always been there.
To get the scale and slope of the roof right
He built a foam board-model.
Weekend after golf-less weekend he tweaked away.
I’ve learned the process after 35+ years of projects and marriage.
I know exactly when to enter into that process
And when to bow out.
It’s an interesting rhythm we have mastered.
While John proportioned the outside
He and I negotiated the inside space.
John’s best idea was to build a partial wall well into the space.
Behind it we could stash the lawn mower, leaf blower and other unsightly things.
My contribution was to panel the entire space in peg board.
By spring we were ready to begin.
But first we had to remove the wall of arborvitae and small shed that inhabited that side of the yard.
It was ….well….alarmingly bare.
But exciting at the same time.
All through the spring and early summer we watched as it rose from the bare spot.
John oversaw every detail
It was clear this was not your average backyard shed when the cupola arrived from Maine.
It is for me a peaceful hub of my passion.
Sunday evenings find me stretched out on the little antique French settee
Sore to the bone
And listening to Krista Tippett’s “On Being” on NPR.
(The best program on radio or television.)
It has served as the bar for parties
The backdrop for bridal showers.
And the heart of the small luncheons Debra and I host as we interview “Wise Women”.
The master bathroom is still circa 1947.
It’s day will come.
I am oh so thankful to John for that golf-less winter
And the gift it brought me.
I look forward to playing in it with my own grandchildren someday.
Creating memories with them.
P.S. A few years after we completed the garden house we ran across this newly published book.