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THE NEXT GENERATION

My father would have loved to have raised a farmer.

And he did

Sort of.

My sister Ann has taken his pecan grove

To production heights that would amaze

And fill him with pride.

I garden at home and in the community.

We are definately not the farmer he was

But we do our best.

I now understand the desire to pass along

My love for the land.

So last week when my son, Elliott

And his children were visiting

We spent time in the garden

And at the farm.

John drove us to different farms

Pointing out details

While I sat between H & H as we call them

Sharing my memories.

It was when Elliott

Insisted we stop to watch a combine

Harvesting wheat,

Then take a few wheat heads

To show the kids how to make “wheat gum”,

And then asked

H & H if they wanted to see the oil in the tanks

That I realized we were really on

The Henry Bellmon Farm Tour….the Next Generation.

My dad took anyone who was interested

On a tour of the farm.

He would spend hours telling his passenger about

The cattle and the land

Especially the farm where his dad lived in a dugout

In the late 1890’s.

And then

He would likely head to a battery of oil tanks.

Where they would climb the rickety stairs

Open a lid

And check on the production.

So when I saw Elliott doing the same thing.

It took me back to those days

And thrilled my soul.

The summers Elliott spent on the farm

Are deeply ingrained in who he is.

But he, too, is not a farmer.

It is unlikely there is a farmer

In the next generation.

But daddy would be happy

That his farm tour lives on.

Through John & Elliott.

Hope you enjoy these sunny days.

Gail

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GENERATIONS

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Four years ago

When we were planning the first Good News Easter Egg Hunt

We didn’t have a lot of children in our congregation.

So we encouraged everyone to invite

Their grandchildren

And great-grandchildren

And neighbor’s children

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And friend’s children.

And they did.

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Two families from Wichita have come home every year.

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So I was elated

When Elliott and Kristina

Began making plans to bring Henry & Harper

Here for their first Easter.

Traveling with twin 8 month old babies

Is brave to say the least.

But they have been amazingly relaxed parents.

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Last Saturday afternoon

We gathered in the garden.

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Many of these children have been coming every year.

They are very comfortable in my garden

And respectful.

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They know they are welcome to wonder through it all

As long as they stay on the path.

They can even leave their name in chalk.

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Fewer and fewer each year are concerned about

Ladybugs crawling up their arms.

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This year one child even made my

“Why do we release ladybugs in the garden” speech spontaneously for me.

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Sloan realized that we were a bit deprived

In the signage department

And convinced her mom to fix that problem.

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As more children have come to our church

Our numbers have grown.

It’s common to have three generations of families come.

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Sometimes even four.

Which is why I was thrilled when

My uncle George dropped by

To meet Harper & Henry.

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George is the last of my father’s 12 siblings.

It was a poignant moment to see them together.

The past meeting the future.

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Gardens have always been a gathering place

A place of reflection

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A place to pass along knowledge

And wisdom.

Generations of life happen in a garden.

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I’m so pleased that some of those memories

Are being made each Easter

In my garden.

Gail

Thank you for this personal indulgence.  I promise to get to serious gardening next week!

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